“We’re Just Friends”

With the passing of the friendship day I realized one thing and that is friends are an integral part of our life .They have immense importance in our life and they seem to make our life more fulfilling and desirable. However by friends I am not just categorizing girlfriends. Breaking the age old myth that a girl and a boy can never be friends is something that I really don’t believe, debunks the myth that men and women who are friends always end up sleeping together. This was something that was actually established in the movie Harry met Sally but then that is a romantic comedy which was suppose to end up with boy and the girl being together but in real life situation can be different. Not always do we have to have the love angle with our male friend. To tell the truth a tomboy like me could never have done without my male buddy, he lends practical angle to my issues! Yeah girl best friends are always need of the hour but survival without my male buddy would be difficult and I don t agree that we loose hold on them after getting boyfriend ,sum limitations might creep in. Women need male best friends because they’re less emotional than girl best friends when it comes to dealing with already emotional issues. This is good in a way because they lend practicality to situations, a quality that women tend to lack at most times. Girl best friends might further complicate matters by digging deeper and uncovering sub-layers of non-issues. Another popular trait of male best friends is what is known in technical terms as just being more “chiller.” Also, in a purely physical and slightly sexist sense, a male best friend can make one feel more protected and secure. While it’s great sharing every inane triviality with someone you truly care about, it’s just not the same as having a platonic male best friend. One can’t very well tell one’s boyfriend that one’s boyfriend is acting like an insensitive prick. And one can’t ever break up with a male best friend.
Thus a woman and a man can share platonic relationship and they can always remain friends and most women are just wired to need men in some form or the other.